The Scarlet Letter: Snowden Revisited
Jun 25, 2013 8:56:55 GMT -5
Post by sticcs on Jun 25, 2013 8:56:55 GMT -5
Cpl msgs to and from me and the commish's office regarding censorship and rosters I wanted to share. FYI and entertainment. Btw this is meant to start dialogue. I believe the commish's are fair and competent and have treated me with respect and civility.
TO: Sticcs
Although I appreciate the sentiment of your post this morning, I don't think posting it as a discussion topic was the most productive choice. Discussion should be reserved for topics that merit further conversation among the league members. As it appeared to me that you were primarily venting frustration with and making a suggestion to the commissioners, I think sending it as a message to the commissioners would have been a more productive choice. I have deleted the post, but you are welcome to continue the discussion with the commissioners in a more private manner. You can PM all of the commissioners at once by copying the following into the "to" line of a private message:
admin, lomo45, yellomellojello, gooseisdead
Smitty has been taking the lead with roster updating lately, and you can see that about a third of them have been updated since the beginning of June. We will continue this process, but it takes time. The early months of the season are a particularly slow period in this league. Things pick up significantly in July as the trade deadline approaches, and making sure the official rosters are up-to-date in order to facilitate trading will be a priority at that time. At present, my priority is to making sure that the Yahoo rosters are kept up-to-date, and the official rosters are secondary. However, I do appreciate your frustration and understand that others may share that sentiment, and accordingly will make the rosters a higher priority. Please understand though that jobs and life take a priority over this league. It is, after all, a free league, and naturally must be considered secondary to other life commitments. Unfortunately this summer I am taking twice as many credits in grad school as I have in previous semesters, and am quite busy. Like you said though, there are four of us, and I will do what I can to make sure the rosters are updated satisfactorily when I can. I don't have tons of time, but I will make sure that more of the time that I do have is spent addressing the rosters.
My problem with the post this morning was its tone. I have no problem with constructive criticism or group discussion to solve problems, but to me that post seemed more like inciting discord and venting frustration than about problem solving. Perhaps I'm being overly sensitive due to my desire to maintain a positive atmosphere in my league, but I think that's my prerogative. My responsibility is to the continued success of this league, and if I think a post is doing more harm than good to that end, I'm going to delete it; it's nothing personal. I hope you'll feel welcome to express concerns and start discussions to address them, but please, when doing so, consider ways to do so productively.
Cheers,
Ben
Hey Sticcs,
I understand you've taken some issue with the league and that you and Ben have had some trouble communicating regarding those issues. I wanted to step in and see if we could settle some of those issues so that nobody has to feel like they're being prevented from enjoying this game. There's no reason for you to feel you need to remain silent and not be an active participant in the league. However, I think the way you're approaching these situations may need to be tweaked a bit so that it comes off as constructive rather than hostile.
One of the bigger issues that seems to be happening is censorship. Ben told me he deleted two of your comments and that your PMs to him regarding those were a bit hostile towards him.
The first deleted comment was one in which you replied to the Denorfia situation by saying "that's so gay". Just to be perfectly clear, I believe it is completely unacceptable to make comments like this that are meant to belittle and insult and we will not allow it in this league. I don't know if we have any gay members in this league, I've never asked, but I can say that I personally am friends with several gay people and I find it offensive when somebody implies a negative connotation towards the word gay, it's their life and they shouldn't be judged for it. If you believe that's improper censorship, then I invite you to seek out another league that's more loose about it, but in pro-gm we have an honor code, which you agreed to when you joined, that says "I will conduct myself in a manner that promotes fair play and fun for all." Insulting people isn't fun and it isn't acceptable here. I trust you understand this and won't do it again.
As for the second comment that was deleted, the one in which you expressed your opinions on our leagues "problem" of not having updated rosters, I believe you had a valid point. I personally would have updated them already but I'm not particularly good with coding and I'm afraid I'd screw up the links that were coded into the official rosters thread for each player (which also have made updating that thread a much more difficult process than it used to be, so please do understand that it takes time to get these things done). The issue with your post was not that you raised an issue, it was with the way you said it. I didn't see it so I can't offer my opinion on whether or not it was constructive, but I can tell you that another gm who saw that post (not a commissioner) described it as "some crazy rant about the official rosters not being updated quick enough for him and he took a swipe at the commissioner not doing their jobs given all the rules in play in this league." I'm sure you didn't mean it that way but that's how it came off, not as a constructive discussion to better the league, but as a crazy rant. Most of the people in this league have been in it for years, they understand that we have a way of doing things, and they're comfortable with it. If they have issues, they talk to us about it and we solve them, they don't rant at us and vilify us.
As far as commissioners not doing our jobs, you need to understand that we are all working professionals with jobs, graduate school programs, and families to take care of. This league is meant to be fun, we do the best we can to keep it running smoothly and as far as the other 25 non-commissioner GMs are concerned this league runs pretty great and they enjoy it. Rather than coming at us with a ton of questions and problems, I'm asking that you please show us a bit of patience and respect. If you want to change something, talk to us rather than blaming us and ranting at us. As I said earlier, there's no reason for you to feel you need to remain silent, but work with us rather than against us. A little patience and respect will go a long way.
Hopefully we can work together in the future to improve the league.
Thanks,
Brian
Co-Commissioner
To the Commissioners:
First of all I agree with you about the "gay" comment, that was wrong and totally unacceptable in today's society. That being said, it wasn't meant to be a derogatory statement toward homosexuals, but frustration in a rule that makes no sense to me. Not actually the rule itself but the way the rule was enforced. Regardless I'm over it and I know better for next time.
My second post, however viewed by it's readers, was my opinion and thoughts, it took time to type them just like your last email. It would be a total waste of your time and energy if I were to just delete it. The fact that I'm making an effort and spend time on a free league shows my interest in making it better. Regardless of my "tone" or perceived tone, it is not fair to me or the league to delete any posts. Censorship is totally un-American. Since baseball is "America's favorite pastime" I believe that this is especially wrong. I'm not going to waste my time and brain power on something that will be erased at a whim. I'm not here to kiss-ass and make new friends. I'm here to compete as a general manager of a team with supposed professional competition. If your feelings are extra sensitive, call your mommy to help you adjust. Deleting any messages is unacceptable if you want to have any league with open dialogue and free speech.
With all due respect to the working professionals and people with families to take care of, school to attend and bills to pay, oh wait that is like every adult in the world. So I apologize if I can't empathize with the excuses of the commissioners. If it's too much on your plate, step down or step up. Try having whomever is in charge of the rosters to update two teams a day until it is finished. How hard is that? If you cannot stay on top of it, then delegate the responsibility. The Rosters should be up to date at all times, within reason(one week). This shouldn't be a month long, two month, or half the season problem. Don't like my attitude, sorry but, I don't like the current system. Fix it and my supposed rants will have no back bone. Just because you are comfortable with a messy and untidy house doesn't mean that your roommates, family or guests will fill the same. This analogy holds true to this league. Right now, like it or not, the rosters are a mess, and that mess is unacceptable if you expect managers to know the rules and follow the regulations. Lead by example, what incentive do I have to keep my roster and clubhouse in order, if the league's "Official Rosters" is a mess. Trust me, I have enough responsibilities and duties in my personal life to not care at all. The fact that I'm taking my time to address these issues shows my interest in making the league better. If you don't want interested managers who are engaged, then run a basic 5x5 yahoo league and stop pretending you have the time and energy to run a professional league.
These are my thoughts, you can call them a rant, a tirade, a motha fucka out of his mind, but never the less, these are my thoughts and I would like them to be taken seriously, or I will not waste my time at all for any reason at all. You will not here from me with the exception of mandatory posts, and they will be short and to the point. Some may like it better that way, and others who knows. I for one enjoy a league packed with all sorts of personalities clashing and trash talking, this makes an exciting league to me. Every person is different but one thing is certain, your brain is like a parachute, if it's doesn't open up, then it's not working properly.
Without open debate and passionate arguments on all sides of a topic how can you truly sit down and make the proper judgement. I will post this email and yours in the discussion board. If it is deleted, then I know where I stand with the commissioners of this league. If it stays then we can all find out where I stand with the rest of the league. Or at least those who will spend some time out of their important day to read and reply.
Last and final thoughts, I'm glad that I joined this league and I'm ready to bring forth the effort to make my team competitive week in and week out until I can roster a team that can contend for a chip. This will take some time to rebuild, years even, but with this level of commitment I have expectations of my own. I expect if I'm to put forth years worth of effort and research that the league I'm in, will value my input and be on top of their duties. Taking over a team, is alot harder then drafting the team you would like. I have a daunting task ahead of me, as most of the current top prospects are taken, and some teams are overloaded with talent compared to others. Life isn't fair, so I accept the challenge. How many managers would do this? I believe most would want to re-draft. How many managers here would want to re-draft? I bet none that have good teams and have spent the last few years diligently building these teams up. Why would you want to silence a competitor who has accepted these lopsided terms of engagement. I would embrace this type of manager. IMO Without managers like myself and the few others who have accepted this unfair starting point, this league would die the fate of so many other franchise leagues. People loose interest after bad decisions, trades, draft choices and years of losing. They quit and move on. Then you are forced to find replacements which becomes harder and harder when the teams become as lopsided as they are headed now. The last resort would be to re-draft and start over from square. This is not my intention btw. I want to start at a disadvantage, I purposely tried to find a league to take a team over, I wanted the challenge. MY time and effort show that I want this league to strive and flourish, please allow all posts to remain by all managers, even if they start a debate, or spark a fire of passion, or incite rage or laughter. As long as they are not personal attacks I believe an open dialogue is always superior to censored material. Regardless of the perceived undertones, or initial assessment of the reader. Thanks for your time and understanding in this matter.
Thanks
Sticcs.
I believe that we will never always agree on everything, but lets agree on one thing, that censorship is wrong and un-American. Through dialogue and open conversation we should always find reasonable and common ground to stand.
"Once a government is committed to the principle of silencing the voice of opposition, it has only one way to go, and that is down the path of increasingly repressive measures, until it becomes a source of terror to all its citizens and creates a country where everyone lives in fear."
Harry S. Truman
"Censorship is telling a man he can't have a steak just because a baby can't chew it."
Mark Twain
"What is freedom of expression? Without the freedom to offend, it ceases to exist."
Salman Rushdie
TO: Sticcs
Although I appreciate the sentiment of your post this morning, I don't think posting it as a discussion topic was the most productive choice. Discussion should be reserved for topics that merit further conversation among the league members. As it appeared to me that you were primarily venting frustration with and making a suggestion to the commissioners, I think sending it as a message to the commissioners would have been a more productive choice. I have deleted the post, but you are welcome to continue the discussion with the commissioners in a more private manner. You can PM all of the commissioners at once by copying the following into the "to" line of a private message:
admin, lomo45, yellomellojello, gooseisdead
Smitty has been taking the lead with roster updating lately, and you can see that about a third of them have been updated since the beginning of June. We will continue this process, but it takes time. The early months of the season are a particularly slow period in this league. Things pick up significantly in July as the trade deadline approaches, and making sure the official rosters are up-to-date in order to facilitate trading will be a priority at that time. At present, my priority is to making sure that the Yahoo rosters are kept up-to-date, and the official rosters are secondary. However, I do appreciate your frustration and understand that others may share that sentiment, and accordingly will make the rosters a higher priority. Please understand though that jobs and life take a priority over this league. It is, after all, a free league, and naturally must be considered secondary to other life commitments. Unfortunately this summer I am taking twice as many credits in grad school as I have in previous semesters, and am quite busy. Like you said though, there are four of us, and I will do what I can to make sure the rosters are updated satisfactorily when I can. I don't have tons of time, but I will make sure that more of the time that I do have is spent addressing the rosters.
My problem with the post this morning was its tone. I have no problem with constructive criticism or group discussion to solve problems, but to me that post seemed more like inciting discord and venting frustration than about problem solving. Perhaps I'm being overly sensitive due to my desire to maintain a positive atmosphere in my league, but I think that's my prerogative. My responsibility is to the continued success of this league, and if I think a post is doing more harm than good to that end, I'm going to delete it; it's nothing personal. I hope you'll feel welcome to express concerns and start discussions to address them, but please, when doing so, consider ways to do so productively.
Cheers,
Ben
Hey Sticcs,
I understand you've taken some issue with the league and that you and Ben have had some trouble communicating regarding those issues. I wanted to step in and see if we could settle some of those issues so that nobody has to feel like they're being prevented from enjoying this game. There's no reason for you to feel you need to remain silent and not be an active participant in the league. However, I think the way you're approaching these situations may need to be tweaked a bit so that it comes off as constructive rather than hostile.
One of the bigger issues that seems to be happening is censorship. Ben told me he deleted two of your comments and that your PMs to him regarding those were a bit hostile towards him.
The first deleted comment was one in which you replied to the Denorfia situation by saying "that's so gay". Just to be perfectly clear, I believe it is completely unacceptable to make comments like this that are meant to belittle and insult and we will not allow it in this league. I don't know if we have any gay members in this league, I've never asked, but I can say that I personally am friends with several gay people and I find it offensive when somebody implies a negative connotation towards the word gay, it's their life and they shouldn't be judged for it. If you believe that's improper censorship, then I invite you to seek out another league that's more loose about it, but in pro-gm we have an honor code, which you agreed to when you joined, that says "I will conduct myself in a manner that promotes fair play and fun for all." Insulting people isn't fun and it isn't acceptable here. I trust you understand this and won't do it again.
As for the second comment that was deleted, the one in which you expressed your opinions on our leagues "problem" of not having updated rosters, I believe you had a valid point. I personally would have updated them already but I'm not particularly good with coding and I'm afraid I'd screw up the links that were coded into the official rosters thread for each player (which also have made updating that thread a much more difficult process than it used to be, so please do understand that it takes time to get these things done). The issue with your post was not that you raised an issue, it was with the way you said it. I didn't see it so I can't offer my opinion on whether or not it was constructive, but I can tell you that another gm who saw that post (not a commissioner) described it as "some crazy rant about the official rosters not being updated quick enough for him and he took a swipe at the commissioner not doing their jobs given all the rules in play in this league." I'm sure you didn't mean it that way but that's how it came off, not as a constructive discussion to better the league, but as a crazy rant. Most of the people in this league have been in it for years, they understand that we have a way of doing things, and they're comfortable with it. If they have issues, they talk to us about it and we solve them, they don't rant at us and vilify us.
As far as commissioners not doing our jobs, you need to understand that we are all working professionals with jobs, graduate school programs, and families to take care of. This league is meant to be fun, we do the best we can to keep it running smoothly and as far as the other 25 non-commissioner GMs are concerned this league runs pretty great and they enjoy it. Rather than coming at us with a ton of questions and problems, I'm asking that you please show us a bit of patience and respect. If you want to change something, talk to us rather than blaming us and ranting at us. As I said earlier, there's no reason for you to feel you need to remain silent, but work with us rather than against us. A little patience and respect will go a long way.
Hopefully we can work together in the future to improve the league.
Thanks,
Brian
Co-Commissioner
To the Commissioners:
First of all I agree with you about the "gay" comment, that was wrong and totally unacceptable in today's society. That being said, it wasn't meant to be a derogatory statement toward homosexuals, but frustration in a rule that makes no sense to me. Not actually the rule itself but the way the rule was enforced. Regardless I'm over it and I know better for next time.
My second post, however viewed by it's readers, was my opinion and thoughts, it took time to type them just like your last email. It would be a total waste of your time and energy if I were to just delete it. The fact that I'm making an effort and spend time on a free league shows my interest in making it better. Regardless of my "tone" or perceived tone, it is not fair to me or the league to delete any posts. Censorship is totally un-American. Since baseball is "America's favorite pastime" I believe that this is especially wrong. I'm not going to waste my time and brain power on something that will be erased at a whim. I'm not here to kiss-ass and make new friends. I'm here to compete as a general manager of a team with supposed professional competition. If your feelings are extra sensitive, call your mommy to help you adjust. Deleting any messages is unacceptable if you want to have any league with open dialogue and free speech.
With all due respect to the working professionals and people with families to take care of, school to attend and bills to pay, oh wait that is like every adult in the world. So I apologize if I can't empathize with the excuses of the commissioners. If it's too much on your plate, step down or step up. Try having whomever is in charge of the rosters to update two teams a day until it is finished. How hard is that? If you cannot stay on top of it, then delegate the responsibility. The Rosters should be up to date at all times, within reason(one week). This shouldn't be a month long, two month, or half the season problem. Don't like my attitude, sorry but, I don't like the current system. Fix it and my supposed rants will have no back bone. Just because you are comfortable with a messy and untidy house doesn't mean that your roommates, family or guests will fill the same. This analogy holds true to this league. Right now, like it or not, the rosters are a mess, and that mess is unacceptable if you expect managers to know the rules and follow the regulations. Lead by example, what incentive do I have to keep my roster and clubhouse in order, if the league's "Official Rosters" is a mess. Trust me, I have enough responsibilities and duties in my personal life to not care at all. The fact that I'm taking my time to address these issues shows my interest in making the league better. If you don't want interested managers who are engaged, then run a basic 5x5 yahoo league and stop pretending you have the time and energy to run a professional league.
These are my thoughts, you can call them a rant, a tirade, a motha fucka out of his mind, but never the less, these are my thoughts and I would like them to be taken seriously, or I will not waste my time at all for any reason at all. You will not here from me with the exception of mandatory posts, and they will be short and to the point. Some may like it better that way, and others who knows. I for one enjoy a league packed with all sorts of personalities clashing and trash talking, this makes an exciting league to me. Every person is different but one thing is certain, your brain is like a parachute, if it's doesn't open up, then it's not working properly.
Without open debate and passionate arguments on all sides of a topic how can you truly sit down and make the proper judgement. I will post this email and yours in the discussion board. If it is deleted, then I know where I stand with the commissioners of this league. If it stays then we can all find out where I stand with the rest of the league. Or at least those who will spend some time out of their important day to read and reply.
Last and final thoughts, I'm glad that I joined this league and I'm ready to bring forth the effort to make my team competitive week in and week out until I can roster a team that can contend for a chip. This will take some time to rebuild, years even, but with this level of commitment I have expectations of my own. I expect if I'm to put forth years worth of effort and research that the league I'm in, will value my input and be on top of their duties. Taking over a team, is alot harder then drafting the team you would like. I have a daunting task ahead of me, as most of the current top prospects are taken, and some teams are overloaded with talent compared to others. Life isn't fair, so I accept the challenge. How many managers would do this? I believe most would want to re-draft. How many managers here would want to re-draft? I bet none that have good teams and have spent the last few years diligently building these teams up. Why would you want to silence a competitor who has accepted these lopsided terms of engagement. I would embrace this type of manager. IMO Without managers like myself and the few others who have accepted this unfair starting point, this league would die the fate of so many other franchise leagues. People loose interest after bad decisions, trades, draft choices and years of losing. They quit and move on. Then you are forced to find replacements which becomes harder and harder when the teams become as lopsided as they are headed now. The last resort would be to re-draft and start over from square. This is not my intention btw. I want to start at a disadvantage, I purposely tried to find a league to take a team over, I wanted the challenge. MY time and effort show that I want this league to strive and flourish, please allow all posts to remain by all managers, even if they start a debate, or spark a fire of passion, or incite rage or laughter. As long as they are not personal attacks I believe an open dialogue is always superior to censored material. Regardless of the perceived undertones, or initial assessment of the reader. Thanks for your time and understanding in this matter.
Thanks
Sticcs.
I believe that we will never always agree on everything, but lets agree on one thing, that censorship is wrong and un-American. Through dialogue and open conversation we should always find reasonable and common ground to stand.
"Once a government is committed to the principle of silencing the voice of opposition, it has only one way to go, and that is down the path of increasingly repressive measures, until it becomes a source of terror to all its citizens and creates a country where everyone lives in fear."
Harry S. Truman
"Censorship is telling a man he can't have a steak just because a baby can't chew it."
Mark Twain
"What is freedom of expression? Without the freedom to offend, it ceases to exist."
Salman Rushdie